According to an eharmony survey one of the top 10 things a man can't stand is
a woman who is unhappy with her life or with herself. So women, Get It Together. Before seriously entering into the dating scene make sure you're happy with yourself and your life. Don't rely on a guy to make you happy. Your source of joy should not be your partner, he should just add to it. If you have low self-esteem start trying to assess why and address those issues. If you're not happy with your financial situation, don't wallow in it be proactive about it. If you're unhappy about your job, start putting together a plan for a career change. If your weight is causing you to be insecure, start exercising and changing your eating habbit. Too stressed, might be time to get in touch with your spirituality. Bottom line no one wants a debbie-downer, sucking up all the positive energy in the room. Work on becoming the best you, so that you can glow and your mate can find you. This is not to say you won't have unhappy moments, but generally keeping a postive outlook on life, doing what you need to do so you can exude self-confidence, and being open to laughter, can you help you attrack your mate.
Remember you can't contribut to someone else's happiness, if you're not happy
